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How to Organize Your Time: 9 Steps

Three months ago - 332 views
How to Organize Your Time: 9 Steps
I've mentioned how to organize your bedroom, your purse, and your makeup (view the Organization collection linked below to see those!) but here's a set to give some tips on how to organize your time. While less tangible, we all know how important it is. How many times have you run out of time to complete an assignment, was late to something important, or felt like there just aren't enough hours in the day? Well, there really are-- you just have to know how to organize your time and use it wisely.
 
{ 1 } Make a schedule
If you don't already have a planner or schedule, I highly suggest you get one. You may want to use one for everything-- homework, assignments, birthdays, parties, tasks, etc., or you can break it up. For example, I used my computer's iCal which syncs with my phone for appointments, birthdays, events. I use my school provided planner for tests, assignments, and what I'll work on each day. Do whatever works best for you, because then you'll be more likely to stick to it.
 
Be sure to keep everything you need on your schedule, and try to write neatly as it will avoid any feelings of being overwhelmed later. One tip is color coding things by subject-- for example in a school planner, you could have a color for each class, or a color for major assignments and the day tests are. You can put your soccer related things in blue, your family duties in red, and your friend-related things in orange, etc. Again, the importance is finding a system that works for you.
 
{ 2 } Take time to get organized
I like to take a day of the week (I usually suggest Sunday or Monday to start off the new week, or Friday at the end of the school week) to get everything together. Go through handouts or sheets to look for any assignments, and put those in your planner. Write down any invitations you've gotten, and take this time to also RSVP. I also like to take this time to make a list of all the to-dos I have, or major assignments coming up for the week. Having it written down on paper makes it easy for you to see, and remember. And there's few things more satisfying than crossing items off your to-do list!
 
{ 3 } Be disciplined
You can either just work off your to-do list, or plan out what things you will get done every block of time (ex: math homework from 4-5, break from 5-5:15, english reading from 5:15-6:00). Either way, be sure to be disciplined. When you know you should be doing your work, DO It! You'll have to get it done eventually, and why not do it early when it's light out, and then watch your TV show at night, rather than watching TV when you get home and rushing, doing your HW when you're tired at 2 am? And most likely you wouldn't have been enjoying your TV show as much, having the thought of your work hanging over you! So just get it done, and then you can relax. If you decide to do something, do it! Get rid of distractions, tell people you need to do your work to hold yourself accountable, and just get it done!
 
{ 4 } Prioritize
Be sure to prioritize all of your activities. Some things you can have others do or not do at all! Be sure to star on your schedule or mark with the number system (explained in this tip: http://www.polyvore.com/how_to_stress_less/set?id=25171051) what is important, and be sure to get this done first. Break it into manageable pieces, and get going. You need to focus on the things that are important and high priority. This goes for school (a test is more important than some reading if you won't be quizzed on it), and other things (your grandma's 90th birthday party over pizza with friends you see every day and have pizza with every weekend).
 
Try listing out your biggest goals-- making the soccer team, getting a B+ or higher in math, helping at an animal shelter 2x / week -- and make sure the tasks that help you get toward your goals are done and scheduled in. You should only be doing tasks you: 1) need to do (school work, mainly), 2) bring you closer to your goals and 3) you truly want to do and enjoy. Be sure to balance the necessities you need to get done with some enjoyable things, to keep your days fun but still productive!
 
{ 5 } Don't overreach yourself
Don't overcommit to things! If you know that you won't have time to do a task, and it's not necessary, don't take it! While some things you have to do, others you don't. You don't want to compromise your ability to do the other tasks because you're so exhausted from things that don't help you get closer to your goals. Sometimes it's okay to say "no" to things!
 
{ 6 } Delegate
Avoid doing tasks that you don't have to do, so that you can focus on the things that you really do need to work on. Don't be afraid to ask others to help out. If you're super busy and on a committee, ask another person to do a task for you. If you're doing a group project, instead of doing all the work yourself, ask her to do some research or pull the bibliography together. Just be sure not to do this too often or too much. It is totally fine to delegate some tasks, but some you will have to do yourself. And be sure to help out others when you have a chance and you have a light load, as they can probably help you when you need it, too.
 
{ 7 } Sleep is not a waste of time!
Sleep is not a waste of time! Sometimes you will need to forfeit sleep, but only do so in necessity. You need to schedule sleep in, and make sure to get to bed at a time you agree to. You may think that if you don't get your work done you can just stay up later, but reframe your mindset to see sleep as just as important-- it really is! Did you know sleep deprivation can lead to organ failure? While skimping a few hours won't do that much, that just shows how valuable it is. Sleeping helps consolidate memories and helps you learn more, too. So schedule in those Zzzs!
 
{ 8 } Set reminders and hold yourself accountable
Tell others when you are going to do things, so they can call you out on it when you don't do it. Ask your parents to help you remember things, and use post-it notes and automated reminders (on your phone, for example) to remind you to get certain things done.
 
{ 9 } Remember Busy ≠ Productive!
Remember that being busy isn't the same as being productive! Some people feel very busy and get little sleep but they don't actually get much done. They do a lot of tasks they don't need to, that don't help them out, that they don't enjoy. Be sure to pare down what you spend your VALUABLE time on to the three things mentioned above, and you'll probably find yourself with much more free time! Being busy isn't the same as being productive.
 
{ conclusion }
Remember your time is valuable, and so is how you spend it. It's all you have, and it's fleeting. So be sure to spend your time doing things you want or need to do! Be sure to be productive, not busy, and use the tips above to help you live a happier, more productive and less stressful life! :)
 
Organization Collection for more tips: http://www.polyvore.com/organization/collection?id=414254
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The Single Gal's Guide to Valentine's Day

Three months ago - 345 views
The Single Gal's Guide to Valentine's Day
With Valentine's Day just around the corner, it's easy to feel sorry for yourself as you see cute couples linking hands and sneaking kisses, big heart shaped balloons entering the drugstore, and flowers being picked up for loved ones. For all those single gals out there, don't fret! Here's a guide for having a wonderful, pity-free Valentine's Day!
 
{ 1 } Remember the love you DO have
While you may not have a significant other, chances are you have many other who deeply love and care for and about you -- your mom and dad, your grandma, your cousin, your little brother and older sister, your dog, your amazing friends... the list goes on. Reach out to those who you love and share the day with them! Make them cute Valentine's day cards, get your mom her favorite chocolates, your friend the bracelet she's had her eye on, and your dog a new bone. Give them love and thanks for all they've done and given you, and have gratitude for all the people in your life who DO love you!
 
{ 2 } Look in the mirror...
Remember that you are ultimately the only person who is always there for you, and therefore you might as well treat yourself well! Put on your favorite new dress or sweater and jeans, put your hair in a cute style, and enjoy your day! Pick up Hersey's kisses for yourself, buy yourself flowers, and give yourself some love! Look in the mirror and name 5 things you love about yourself, and treat yourself-- you deserve it!
 
{ 3 } Have a fun night!
Grab some friends and go out to a fun movie, all wearing cute outfits! Or, you can stay in and watch funny movies (I recommend She's The Man, any Steve Martin or Eddie Murphy film.), and bake cupcakes! Listen to some fun music, and have a spa day-- put on a face mask, do your nails, and take a bubble bath! Spend the day with friends, family, or yourself-- but be sure to treat yourself!
 
{ 4 } Don't fret!
Don't worry if you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend to spend the day with! Be sure to be grateful and pay attention to all the people and things you do have in your life that you love and appreciate. Treat yourself kindly, for if you want to be in a relationship, at some time it will come, and when it does the time will be right. So go out and buy some frosting, heart shaped sprinkles, a bouquet of flowers, and a yummy smelling candle. Sit back and enjoy your day. You deserve it!

Beat the Winter Blues

Three months ago - 307 views
Beat the Winter Blues
As the second tip to my Winter Series tip series, I am going to talk about beating the winter blues. You know the feeling you get when the sky is black by 4 pm, and the sky seems endlessly grey! Once the holidays have passed, you just want spring...
 
{ 1 } Surround your self with happy things
Because everything in the winter seems so dreary, create a fun environment for yourself! Buy or pull out some brightly colored pillows for your room. Get a pack of hot pink pencils, and set your phone and computer background to a bright, happy photo from Tumblr or of you and your friends from the summer. Buy some fresh flowers (they can do wonders!) and be sure to always have your blinds up to let fresh light inside. Create an iTunes or Youtube playlist of upbeat, summer songs, and make a Youtube playlist of funny videos.
 
{ 2 } Pretend it's Summer!
-Find a local indoor pool! You'll find that swimming might bring you back to your summer memories! Wear a bright swimsuit, and a few friends!
 
-Create a summer day with your friends! Go over on a Saturday, all dressed in shorts and t-shirts (be sure to have the heater on!) Eat some watermelon, make some S'mores (put a marshmallow on a piece of aluminum foil and place in the microwave oven until gooey. Scoop onto graham cracker, add chocolate, and enjoy!), mix up some lemonade, and read some magazines as if at the pool!
 
{ 3 } Bring the summer to you!
Wear your favorite summer sundress to school with tights, boots, and a warm cardigan on top! Blend up a fruity smoothy! Do a beach workout video instead of running on the treadmill!
 
{ 4 } Stay on top of things
Be sure to eat healthfully, hang out with friends on weekends, keep up with your schoolwork, and exercise. With winter, we just want to isolate ourselves, eating Ben & Jerry's and watching TV. While that's not bad for some days, be sure to also get out, hang out, and do things! You'll feel more productive, happy, and well-rounded.
 
{ 5 } Embrace the winter!
While the winter can be cold and dreary, it also has its perks! Eat some delicious soup for dinner! Have hot chocolate when you get home with gingebread cookies. Go ice skating! Have a snowball fight, and make snow angels. Wear your super cute sweaters and boots and layers! Have a fun movie night with friends to embrace the indoors, buy yummy peppermint and gingerbread body products (I recommend Bath & Body Works or Philosophy), set a yummy smelling candle, and enjoy winter while it lasts!
 

For the last winter series tip, check out winter 101 for winter beauty tips!
http://www.polyvore.com/tip_winter_101/set?id=14885320
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Tips4You is Back!!!

Three months ago - 211 views
Tips4You is Back!!!
If you haven't checked out some of my tips, here are some of my most popular:
 
-A Day for Self Improvement
http://www.polyvore.com/day_for_self_improvement/set?id=24317917
 
-50 Ways to Be More Healthy
http://www.polyvore.com/50_ways_to_be_more/set?id=16481628&lid=380884
 
-Organizing Your Room http://www.polyvore.com/tip_organizing_your_room/set?id=15502932&lid=380884
 
-How to Sleep Better and Deeper
http://www.polyvore.com/how_to_sleep_better_deeper/set?id=23142152&lid=380884
 
-How to Stress Less
http://www.polyvore.com/how_to_stress_less/set?id=25171051&lid=380884
 

REQUESTS I'VE GOTTEN:
-Fights
-Friendship
-How to write (creative writing)
-What to wear to formal thing (like Model UN)
-What to wear to a concert
-Chocolate brownie recipe
-Bucket List Ideas
-Songwriting tips
-Bedoom Re-do
-School tips
-Friends
-Best friend's boyfriend
-Anger management

DIY: Cuff bracelet

Two years ago - 9,621 views
DIY: Cuff bracelet
{ what you need }
-Cardboard
-Old magazines or newspaper, colored paper, tissue paper
-Tape or glue or modge podge
-Embellishments, such as glitter, studs, rhinestones
-Felt
 
{ 1 } You'll want to cut out a piece of cardboard that is as wide as you want your cuff to be. For length, wrap it around your wrist. You'll want to be able to slide it on and off easily (as this cuff will be a slide-on one)
Optional: Then take this and put a piece of felt the inside side before doing the next step. This can add a pop of color to the inside plus added comfort.
 
{ 2 } Use a good strong tape to keep the ends of the cardboard together. Don't worry- we'll be covering this up.
 
{ 3 } Get out some magazines or newspapers that you have lying around. Cut out strips (colors and prints that you like) and simply glue, tape or use modge podge to attach it on. Continue doing this all around. You can cut out specific shapes or images as well, and attach those on.
 
{ 4 } Apply any rhinestones, studs or anything with a craft or jewel glue. Let dry completely
 
{ 5 } Apply a layer of modge podge onto the cuff and let dry.

New Years Tips!

Two years ago - 1,480 views
New Years Tips!
Hi Everyone!
Happy New Year!
Check out the last set for some upcoming sets.
And here are some sets to upstart your new years resolutions!!!
 
How to Keep New Years Resolutions: http://www.polyvore.com/tip_new_years_resolutions/set?id=15156761
Be beautiful on the Inside: http://www.polyvore.com/be_beautiful_on_inside/set?id=22560879
Sleep Better and Deeper: http://www.polyvore.com/how_to_sleep_better_deeper/set?id=23142152
50 Ways to be more Healthy: http://www.polyvore.com/50_ways_to_be_more/set?id=16481628
Exercising: http://www.polyvore.com/tip_17_exercise/set?id=19797834
Clear Up Acne: http://www.polyvore.com/acne_101/set?id=19722412
Organize Your Room: http://www.polyvore.com/tip_organizing_your_room/set?id=15502932
Be more Girly: http://www.polyvore.com/tip_how_to_be_girly/set?id=15252030
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COMING UP

Two years ago - 1,552 views
COMING UP
Hi guys!
Sorry I was not on much and totally abandoned the winter series. While I did miss much of the holiday stuff, I still can do some new years things as well as the winter months through to march.
 
BELOW ARE SOME UPCOMING SETS:
-Organizing / Decorating Bathrooms
-How to get Happier
-Makeup with glasses
-How to take good pictures
-DIY embellished sweatshirt
-How to eat healtheir
-All about school bags
-How to stay warm
-How to stay healthy during the winter season
-Cute hairstyles
-50 ways to feel more sexy
-how to pull off dramatic makeup
-all about cream blush
-DIY cuff
-DIY tee
 
For more school stuff:
http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?id=951209

How to Stress Less!

Two years ago - 17,440 views
How to Stress Less!
Will school, extracurriculars, a social life (or an attempt to) and so much more, honestly, your life is probably pretty stressful. But stress isn't good for us. It lowers your immune system, leaving you more susceptible to virus and illness, especially during these winter months, it can cause acne, back and shoulder aching and stomach pains. It can increase blood pressure and cause unhealthy eating and exercise habits. So, read on to find out a new tips to stop stressing.
 
{ 1 } Plan it out
-With your school assignments, holidays and extracurriculars, you life is probably very busy and overwhelming to think about. So, first of all, get out a piece of paper and write down all of the things you have to do. List them by priority. Next to things put a number, in a parenthesis, from 1-5. 1 being lowest priority and 5 being highest priority.
These are things that you need to get done. Writing everything down and putting it on paper will help you a lot to see what you need to do. And few things feel better than crossing an item off a to-do list when done with it.
-Then, take the big assignments that are daunting, and break them into smaller steps that aren't so hard. Give yourself guide lines on these things. Managing your life easily on paper will make it easy to see, show you what you need to get done and make organizing and working a lot easier and less stressful.
 
EX:
•English Essay due Monday (5)
-Highlight quotes in book (by Fri)
-Write out an outline (by Fri)
-Type up an intro paragraph (by Sat)
-Type up body paragraphs (by Sat)
-Type up conclusion (by Sun)
-Proof read and edit (by Sun)
 
•Buy birthday gift for Katie by Wednesday (4)
-Order gift online at BestBuy.com (by Thurs)
-Wrap up present (by Tues)
-Write card (by Weds)
 
{ 2 } Target the problem
In writing a to-do list, you'll probably be able to find out what is stressing you out. An English paper, a newspaper article you need to write, the soccer match on Friday.
Once you know your problem, break it up into smaller steps. Write on your to-do list how you are going to tackle the English paper.
For soccer, write out days to practice. Talk with teammates to boost your confidence, and get spirited to make it more fun. Put aside time with your mom to cut oranges and get Gatorade together for half time, and make sure your cleats and shin guards are ready by the night before. Breaking things into steps and organizing them will make you feel a lot better. You'll have to worry about less, and stress less, too!
 
{ 3 } What's the worst that can happen?
Think for a second about the worst that can happen. Honestly, many of the times the things aren't life threatening things that won't hurt your life. Sure, a bad grade is annoying and might put down your average. But meeting with your teacher, showing you care, getting study tips and working hard to show them you care can easily allow them and cause them to boost up your grade on your report. Think of the worst that can happen, and many times there are many simple solutions to them to get you back on track.
 
{ 4 } Take a deep breath
Relax. Get some warm tea or hot chocolate, some chocolate or snacks you like, and make sure everything in your environment is good for you. Make sure there may be some soft classical music in the background if you don't love silence, that you're wearing comfortable clothing and you are in a relaxing environment. Just take a deep breath, take your to-do list one step at a time and give yourself breaks in between. Go for a walk around the house, take a shower, read a chapter of a book you love to read. Sitting there, worrying and stressing out won't help you accomplish what you need to do or anything else. If you need a break, take one. Get a snack, chat with your Grandma on the phone, practice knitting or the flute for a bit. Take your time wisely and restore yourself so you're ready to go back to work clear headed and unstressed.
 
{ 5 } Get everyone to help
Be sure to get your friends, family and everybody supporting you. Tell them what you need to do- share your to-do list. Have them know what you need to get done and that you're stressed. Maybe your mom can bring you a hot chocolate that will cheer you up and relax you. Maybe your older sister can help you with that science homework that's so confusing when you have a test the next day. Maybe your Grandma can reccomend a poem to write about, or your friend can help you after school with your dribbling. Getting teachers, friends, family and everyone around you to help your goals happen will make your life a lot easier and more stressful.
 
Hope this helps! Any more question on this topic and tip or anything else, be sure to PM me or list below!
And be sure to check out my last set- I am doing a winter season series, and would love to know what you want to see!

Winter Tip Series!

Two years ago - 1,568 views
Winter Tip Series!
As the winter months roll around, with holidays and holiday parties, the need for gifts and staying healthy and happy during the season, I think a tip series is a great idea.
 
If you have any requests for tips, please PM me and/or post below!
 
Check out the first tip: Winter 101
http://www.polyvore.com/tip_winter_101/set?id=14885320&lid=680152

A Day for Self Improvement

Two years ago - 64,977 views
A Day for Self Improvement
Take a day to yourself, restoring and revitalizing yourself, and making yourself better. Read on to find out how to enjoy a day- for you!
 
{ 1 } The night before
The night before, try to get to bed early. Decide what time you want to wake up the next morning, and set aside 8-10 hours of sleep you can get. Be sure to read my last tip to find out how to prepare for a restful sleep and for a restorative next day.
Be sure in advanced to tell your friends and family that it is a day for yourself, as they won't make plans that you'll have to join.
 
{ 2 } The morning
Start out the day slowly. Wake up to the sunlight, or if you can't do that, wake up to some soft music, or your favorite radio station.
Slowly get up, and be sure to stretch out. Open those blinds and let the wonderful bright sun bask through your window.
Then, go get some breakfast. Try something healthy, avoid any processed foods all day. Try something with both protein and carbs.
Ideas:
-Toasted whole wheat toast with organic almond or peanut butter
-Yogurt with fresh fruit, some toast
-Some toast with hard boiled or scrambled eggs
-Smoothie with yogurt or milk, fresh fruit
Try drinking them with some freshly squeezed fruit juice, water with lemon or warm tea
 
{ 3 } Exercise.
Try to get out and greet the day. Wear something comfortable, and that makes you feel confident and beautiful. Try not to wear any makeup when going out. Slather on some sunscreen, and maybe put on some lip balm. If anything, just try some concealer to cover up any blemishes. Try jogging in the park or riding your bicycle. Be sure to get your heart pumping!
 
{ 4 } Rejuvenate
Get back, and get a nice warm bath going. Put in some nice bubble bath, grab a book or magazine and relax.
Then, drain the bath and turn on the shower.
Then, get a body brush, loofah or scrub and exfoliate all of your body. Rinse well. You can shave then, as well, if you'd like. Then, rinse your hair with a clarifying shampoo. Get rid of that old built up product. Massage your scalp with your fingertips (not your nails!) to get circulation flowing and get rid of any dead skin cells. Rinse well.
Use a deep conditioner, or hair mask, and let it soak as the directions say.
While that's going, use a facial scrub or exfoliant. Then, rinse well.
Apply a deep cleansing mask to get rid of things clogging your pores.
Then, put the water as cold as you can stand it, stand for twenty seconds, then put it on very hot, and then stand for twenty seconds. Repeat, and end on cold water. This will increase circulation.
Then, get out of the shower. Be sure to dry off your skin gently.
Apply a nice thick lotion to moisturize your body. Massage your body, increasing circulation.
Then, rinse of the hair and face masks when their time is up.
Apply a nice moisturizer on your face and neck.
For your wet hair, dab it dry. Do not rub, or use heat.
Put a moisturizing serum or cream in your hair, brush it out with a wide tooth comb bottom to top (if you don't have a wide tooth comb, wait until hair is only semi damp, and use a brush gently from the bottom working up) and let your hair air dry.
 
{ 5 } Restore
While letting your hair air dry, you can cut your nails and take off any polish you have. You can either give them a break, or apply a nice polish color on them.
 
Then, get some lunch. Try tons of veggies with some protein and carbs.
Ideas:
-Try a big salad, with some grilled shrimp, salmon or other fish, or grilled chicken. Avocado is a nice addition to this or to a sandwich, as it has nice healthy fats, which are amazing for you, with some bread on the side.
-A nice whole wheat sandwich, with some lean meat, tuna salad, turkey, etc.
 
After, you want to have time to digest. So, sit back and grab a book you love. Grab some tea, and enjoy. Call up some friends you want to catch up with, and call your family such as your grandparents. Avoid going on the computer. Write hand letters to people. Get a book or go online just to research something you've been interested in and haven't learned. Listen to informative podcasts, and hear from great speakers such as Ted Talk (see Google).
 
{ 6 } Relax
Then, try a few yoga poses to relax. Try this video to learn some for beginners:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3vLZqPZxZE
Try to get a good friend or sibling involved!
 
{ 7 } Snack
Have a nice snack, such as fresh fruit, some vegetables, some pretzels with peanut butter, dark chocolate and nuts, etc. Maybe read while eating, taking your time. Possibly the newspaper or a favorite magazine.
 
{ 8 } Free time
Use this time to do what you want, much like your relax time. Try researching a charity, learning a new skill, perfecting a language you're learning. Practice the piano, try some new dance moves, learn the lyrics to a song, and work on your singing voice.Try to do things that improve you and who you are. Try to mend broken friendships and try to help others in need. Compliment others, be kind and try to spread happiness. Spend time with others, socialize and have engaging conversations!
 
{ 9 } Have a healthy dinner, such as a lean protein with vegetables and a carb.
Ideas:
-Chicken or salmon with spinach or green beans, some rice
-Pasta tossed with tomatoes and zucchini and grilled chicken
etc.
Be creative! Try new things!
 
{ 10 } Try to wind down and relax before bed, doing your favorite things, spending time with your favorite people and getting ready for another fabulous day ahead.
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